Many people see life as one big journey, with a finish line as their final destination. They see this finish as the main goal, a point in time or place in life that will finally bring them the satisfaction or happiness they are looking for. It’s great to have goals like this, because it will give you a drive and motivation all through life. However, many people become too fixated on nothing but a culmination of everything they live for. Due to this tunnel vision, they forget to appreciate everything that is surrounding them.
I watched a movie once called “Hector and the Search for Happiness.” It was about a man who decided to take some time off of work, travel around the world, experience as much as he could, and figure what makes people happy. During his search however, he noticed that the simple act of living and experiencing was far more important than any end goal in mind. Ever since seeing this movie, I have had a personal mantra:
“Happiness comes from the pursuit. The pursuit to maker others happy, the pursuit to make yourself better, and the pursuit to love unconditionally.”
Everyday, whenever I feel impatient, anxious, or sad, I remember to slow down and take in everything around me. Live life with a goal in mind, always, but don’t forget to enjoy every step of your journey.
Take pleasure in life.
Live with open eyes.